So I looked at the aftermarket mounts $100.00

I got a new stock mount and proceeded to fill the voids in the rubber inserts with a type of two part epoxy steel filler similar to JB weld but much thicker.
I can tell you right now that I will be either modifying it yet again or simply shelling out the $100.00 for the good aftermarket mount.
It's basically like having a 100% solid motor mount now and the vibration is unbearable for daily driving, it's not bad once you're moving but off the line and anytime below 2000 it's simply horrendous.